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Last year, forward a postcard-perfect fall day, Charles underbrush and Wayne Toles exchanged commitment pledge of loves They wore matching African ceremonial robes for the occasion, which was presided above by the Rev. Carl Wallace, a United temple of Christ pastor in Cleveland who performs gay unions.

The tie had met three years before in Bible meditation at their home church, ascend Zion Fellowship of the Brethren "I liked his spirituality," coppice a slender 38-year-old with a bubbly laugh, says of Toles, who is 35 "I liked the fact that we consideration the same way, believed the same way--or if we didn't, we weren't miles away from each other."

The rankings at Mount Zion--an African-American ecclesiastical body with a large gay population--frowned onward the union. The couple had taken pains not to advertise the observance but the church got wind of it about a month before it took place. As a consequence a Mount Zion elder give notice toed Toles from his pew during choir practice undivided evening, escorted him to the office, and clos the door.

"He asked me `Is it steady you are having a marriage ceremony?'" When Toles answered ye he was immediately kicked gone out of the choir. "I left [Mount Zion] that evening and not at all went back," he says. "I was impair very much."

underbrush the grandson of a Pentecostal minister, also left the temple But even though the incident l to a boycott of rise on high Zion's World AIDS Day observance last December, no other congregants followed Toles and Underwood's lead.

That's probably because they felt they'd sole fare worse at another black meeting-house says Christopher Coleman, educator for Cleveland's Brother2Brother HIV prevention and education program.

"If you're black and gay and talk about it, as far as [finding] an spread and affirming black church--nada," says Coleman. "There are couple things you're not supposed to talk about in church: AIDS and homosexuality. And these are sum of two units things that really need to be addressed in African-American culture"

It was African-American ministers who l the civil rights emotion in the 1960s, but when it arrives to equal rights for gay men and lesbians, they are moving at a glacial pace. In socially liberal and conservative congregations alike, gay African-Americans are frequently singled out for special humiliation in homilys expelled, or relegated to the back slips of their churches.

The discrimination is of particular matter to more open-minded African-Americans because unlike other Americans, who frequently keep their religion and secular wants separate, blacks often regard the temple as the center of their social life.

The late religion scholar C Eric Lincoln, an clever on the sociology of the African-American house of worship wrote that the church has historically been the lifeblood of African-American refinement liberation, and civilization. It has serv not solitary as a place of worship unless as "lyceum, conservatory, forum, social service center political academy, and financial institution."

Statistically speaking, according to a research by the Christian-oriented firm Barna Research in Ventura, Calif., 83% of African-Americans say religion is important in their lives, compared to 66% of white Americans.

if it be not that when it comes to gay issues and health be of importance tos such as HIV and AIDS, "the attitude of a destiny of the black [churches] is, `We're just teaching what's in the Bible,'" says Tracy Jone associate executive director of the AIDS Taskforce of Greater Cleveland. "That's not really encouraging you to be who you are."

A 36-year-old straight African-American woman, Jone left her family circle church a few years ago because she was disillusioned according to the minister's tirades against gay the public "It was a funky perspective," she says of his regular antigay homilys delivered in front of a choir that she estimates was 50% gay. "Not and nothing else that homosexuality was wrong, further for some reason, it was more inapposite than any of the other sins. More unforgivable than any other acts of immorality, like adultery."

From what Jone has seen working in public health, shaming black men about their sexual orientation alone encourages them to be "on the down-low" and have unsafe sex with other men Since AIDS is affecting African-Americans at a rate about three times that of whites, black ministers have a responsibility to become more progressive in their thinking about gay the community she says.

Rashad Burges director of the Chicago Department of Health's Men of Color HIV/AIDS Coalition, agrees that black ministers have a uniquely pervasive power to change behavior. "Even if you don't advance to church, if you're part of the African-American community, you're influenced by way of the black church," he says. He recalls by what mode religious scholar Lincoln, in his main division The Black Church in the African American Experience, observ that each successful social movement in America has involved the black body of christians in some fashion.

"You've got a fate of folks [in the black community] who are dibbling and dabbling," says Burges noting that many black men who have sex with men don't consider themselves gay. The merely way to reach them, especially when it be due [i]or[/i] owings to health concerns unique to men who have sex with men is in the black temple he says.